02/09/2026
I’m a private midwife. I support women in hospital, attend homebirths, and I don’t wear scrubs.
And yes, that’s a conscious choice.
I know some midwives and birth workers love scrubs, ID badges and clinical attire. If that feels right for you, wonderful.
But for me? It doesn’t.
When I walk into a hospital birth room, my client is already surrounded by everything that can make birth feel clinical:
The bright lights.
The machines.
The alarms.
The monitoring.
The policies.
The uniforms.
The constant movement in and out of the room.
I don’t want to add another layer of that.
I don’t want her to see another person who represents the institution.
I want her to see her midwife, the woman who has supported her through pregnancy, knows her hopes and fears, understands her preferences and history, and who she already trusts.
I’m not there as a member of the hospital team.
I’m there as her private midwife, supporting her within the hospital environment.
I don’t need a badge to establish my role or scrubs to prove I’m a midwife. I don’t need to look clinical to practise safely, professionally and within my scope.
My knowledge, clinical skills and professional responsibility are still there.
The clothes don’t change that.
What they can change is how a woman experiences me.
I want my clients to feel comfortable talking to me, asking questions, telling me when something doesn’t feel right, leaning on me and knowing I’m there for them.
Whether I’m sitting on a family’s couch, standing beside a birth pool or supporting a woman through labour in hospital, I am still her midwife.
I don’t want to look like the environment.
I want to be the familiar person who helps her feel safe within it.
So yes, you’ll probably find me at a birth in comfortable clothes and sneakers.
Not because I’m any less professional, but because I don’t believe professionalism has to look clinical.
Sometimes the most regulating person in the room is the one who doesn’t look like everyone else.
And maybe that’s exactly where I want to be. 🫶