19/06/2026
These are real things women have said to me. Some in my clinic, some on the couch during a home visit, most of them said quietly, almost like an apology.
If you’ve said any of these to yourself, I want you to hear what I tell every woman who says them to me. You are not failing. You’re doing the hardest thing there is, often without the support you should have had around you. The two are not the same, even though exhaustion makes them feel identical at 3am.
You were never the problem but the lack of support was.
So much of that lack comes down to walking in unprepared, not because you didn’t try, but because no one sat you down beforehand and told you what was actually coming. That’s exactly what my Bump to Breast workshop is for. It gets you and your support partner ready for the early days together, so you’re not learning it all at 3am on no sleep. If you’re pregnant, this is the preparation I wish every woman had. Bookings are open, link in bio.