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Ever wanted to be as emotionally and mentally strong as the most seasoned pros in the locker room?

07/09/2026

Michelangelo believed the sculpture was already inside the marble.
His work was to remove everything that didn’t belong to finally get to the masterpiece within.

High performance has a similar paradox.

In training, we add.

We do more reps, build strength, work on our skills with intensity.

We push the body beyond what it could do yesterday, because growth needs stimulus.

But we can’t live in that state 24/7.
However that's where most high performers live.

So they never recover and stay stuck in nervous system overdrive.

Substraction in this case means bringing more stillness to the mind. Sitting in silence or lying down and only observing the breath instead of always doing more.

Recovery is really also about allowing the mind to become quiet again.

🧠 Less overthinking.
📵 Less stimulation.
💔 Less tension.

A good nervous system accelerates fast - but also gets the chance to come back to stillness.

It's always a two step process:
First, push the edges of what you can do.
Second, become still enough to absorb what you’ve worked on.

Add to your craft.
Subtract from your mind.

06/09/2026

Why not watching as much football as you can while in one of the worlds top ⚽ capitals 💪 and observe some of the top women's player perform also mentally.

Madrid feminil vs Eibar - in the end a 0:0 - que lastima.

Real Madrid C.F.

04/09/2026

Komplettes interview auf seinem Youtube Kanal. Sehr zu empfehlen👍

Und falls du mehr zum Thema Soccer breathwork oder Atemtraining im Fussball lernen möchtest, folge mir gerne oder schreib mir eine PN mit deinen Fragen.

03/09/2026

Grateful for having been able to watch yesterday's women's CL qualifiers game between PSG and Eintracht Frankfurt.

Although not the result we had hoped for I really enjoyed this work trip a lot.

I am not just having the pleasure to work with elite level players but also top coaches - because also for coaches performance is a matter of mental strength, mindfulness and pressure resilience.

I love working with pro soccer coaches especially for the fact how much I learn about leadership and different styles of coaching myself whenever I get to observe them on the pitch.

To best wishes for the season.

21/08/2026

At the 1998 World Cup against Romania, Davor Šuker did something fascinating before taking his penalty.

He checked his pulse.

Šuker later explained that he wanted his heart rate around 120 beats per minute because, for him, that was a sign that he was calm and ready to execute.

Why does that matter?

Under pressure, the sympathetic nervous system becomes more active. Heart rate rises, breathing gets faster, muscles become more tense, and coordination can become less controlled.

But breathing gives us a way to influence that state.

A slow, controlled exhalation can help increase parasympathetic (or vagal) influence on the heart. During the exhale, heart rate naturally tends to slow. By controlling the breath, an athlete can help bring their nervous system from a highly activated state toward a calmer, more controlled one.

Šuker was trying to find the right level of activation: calm enough to think clearly, but energized enough to perform.

Similar breathing and heart-rate regulation techniques are used in law-enforcement and shooting training to help people control physiological arousal, maintain attention and make precise movements under stress. Research on police training has shown that improving autonomic regulation and parasympathetic activity can reduce excessive arousal and support performance under pressure.

The lesson for football is simple:

Your breathing can change your state.
🧠 Prolonging the exhale is a safe and proven tool to help calm your nerves within seconds.

👇 Tag someone who needs to calm down before the next PK

08/08/2026

One critical skill many goalkeepers struggle with is this:

Staying mentally ready and switched on for the full 90+ minutes.

Focus and attention are two of the most important psychological factors for high performance.

Athletes who struggle to stay concentrated make "silly" mistakes.

👇 Follow this rule if you want to outplay your competition: 👇

🚫 NO phone 📵 on match day.

Why? Because mindless scrolling drains your attention battery.

A study with 60 people found that just 10 minutes of TikTok scrolling reduced prospective memory accuracy from 80% to 49%.

For a goalkeeper, that could mean being worse at remembering and reacting to important cues while also tracking the ball, your positioning and your opponents.

Source: Chiossi et al., LMU Munich, CHI 2023.

That 3-second, attention-grabbing content drains you mentally because your brain constantly has to adapt:

Cat content → news → holiday pics → football → another random video → repeat.

Our brains are simply not designed for this constant switching.

It's like sitting at a slot machine in a casino, hoping for the next win. That's why it's so hard to stop scrolling.

The truth is, the win never comes.

Instead, you risk showing up mentally less prepared for the important game ahead.

One more thing:

Please share this post and then get off social media if today is match day. 😉💪

Best wishes for the game! 🧤⚽

02/08/2026

Today I had the privilege to attend a tour of the brand-new DFB headquarter in Frankfurt.
Top facilities - no doubt.

🔥 Are you surprised DFB trains their players nervous system regulation through breathwork and relaxation besides Ai supported performance training? - Comment below 👇

25/07/2026

5 signs of mentally elite soccer players...

17/07/2026

One of the hardest parts of modern goalkeeping isn't making spectacular saves.

It's playing out from the back.

Having the confidence to stay high up the pitch, receive under pressure, and accept the risk that if you lose the ball, or misjudge a long ball - the net behind you is wide open.

I know exactly how this feels because I've been there myself.

As a young goalkeeper I blew my chance in a pro trial. Today I work with athletes to build the mental game I never knew about.

What I didn't understand back then was how to train the mental side of this part of my game.

I had no idea how much my self-esteem influenced my confidence. I had no idea confidence is self esteem in action. My self esteem was high, but I had no confidence. I thought I was confident but today I know I wasn't.

My talent was blocked by fears.

The fear wasn't conceding a goal.

It was the shame of making a mistake.

And the shame of being judged by coaches and teammates and of course my dad.

I was afraid that one mistake would make people question whether I was actually the talented goalkeeper they thought I was.

Mentally this was drowning my energy - and I see this in a lot of talented players I work with daily.

Every mistake felt personal to me, so every training session became something to survive instead of a chance to grow.

That's where so many talented young goalkeepers get stuck.

They hope confidence will magically appear with more matches or more experience.

But it rarely works like that.

Today's goalkeeper is much more than a shot-stopper who makes highlight saves.

You're expected to be part of the back line, play under pressure, and help build almost every attack.

That requires more than technical ability.

It requires a mental game that's strong enough to embrace mistakes, separate self-worth from performance, and keep asking for the ball.

That's a skill.

And like every other skill, it can be trained.

If this is the part of your game that's holding you back, send me a message.

I'd love to help you develop it through 1:1 mental performance coaching.

16/07/2026

Things I Thought Coaching Was... vs. What I Learned

I thought coaching meant telling people what to do.
I learned coaching is asking better questions and letting people discover the answers themselves.

I thought I knew everything and my players knew nothing.
I learned the more I coach, the more I realize how much I can learn from my players every single day.

I thought great coaches talk a lot.
I learned great coaches listen twice as much as they speak. There's probably a reason we have two ears and only one mouth.

No. 4 I forgot to mention:

I thought I could motivate people.
I learned you can't motivate anyone. Because real motivation comes from within. Our job as coaches isn't to create motivation, but to create the environment where it can grow.

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