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29/09/2026

15/09/2026

A man’s reaction to an area where he is not doing well, when he is constantly insulted because of it, is often to run away rather than improve.

But when he is respected even in that area, it motivates him to think of improvement, so he can become better and earn even more honour.

Respect can inspire what insults often destroy.

13/09/2026

Ogede akpu is 40 years old. He lives in Ibafo ,Ogun state. He is an indigene of Abeokuta , Ogun state. He has eight children. He's an okada rider and his last born is one month old.

On Thursday last week, the cry of his one month old baby woke him up from sleep. He in turn called the attention of his wife to come and breastfeed the baby, she vehemently refused saying she was tired and she can't feed her baby in the midnight.

This infuriated Ogede akpu who according to him gave her a dirty slap. Unfortunately, she fell down and died instantly. Akpu has been arrested.

While some are of the opinion that the man should be released so as to take care of his eight children, others think he should face the full wrath of the law. What do you think?

01/09/2026

Happy New Month

30/08/2026

WHY SUBMISSION TO HUSBAND IS SUBMISSION TO GOD.

I counsel married women quite often that submission to your husband is a divine mandate, not merely a matter of convenience, personality, or whether your husband has earned it.

If you desire to enjoy the marriage institution as ordained by God and experience the blessings attached to His design, you must understand and obey His principles.

Your level of education, social status, financial capacity, professional achievement, or even the fact that you may earn more than your husband does not cancel this divine instruction.

Submission is not predicated on whether a man is richer, more educated, more successful, or more qualified than his wife. It is a biblical order established by God for marriage.

Ephesians 5:22 says:

«“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.”»

And verse 23 further establishes the husband as the head of the wife.

This does not mean that a wife has no voice, no wisdom, no rights, or that a husband is permitted to abuse or oppress her.

Biblical submission is not a licence for abuse. Rather, it is an acknowledgement of God's order within marriage, just as the husband is commanded to love his wife sacrificially, “even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” See, Ephesians 5:25.

Therefore, marriage is not designed to operate according to whichever principle suits either spouse. God's instructions apply to both husband and wife.

There is no shortcut to enjoying God's design for marriage. When couples deliberately disregard divine principles and attempt to build marriage solely on personal preferences, pride, competition, or worldly standards, they can create avoidable marital conflict and eventually destroy what God intended to preserve.

So, before entering marriage, understand the rules of the institution you are entering.

If a woman knows that she cannot willingly submit to the biblical authority God has established for marriage, she should seriously reconsider entering that institution.

And perhaps some of us need to stop asking God endlessly for a peaceful marriage while deliberately ignoring the principles He has already given us for achieving one.

Sometimes, the answer to the prayer is already in the instruction.

Read the Word. Understand God's design. Obey His principles.

Ephesians 5:22–25.

08/06/2026

It is heartbreaking to see a woman who has a husband, a successful business, and children doing well abroad still choose to stage her own kidnap and engage in an extra-marital affair to the extent of causing her husband emotional pain and serious health challenges.

Sometimes, situations like this make one wonder what is happening to morals, loyalty, dignity, and the value of family in this generation.

May we not lose good character in the pursuit of worldly things.

04/06/2026

DEAR MEN, CONGRATULATION IF YOUR WIFE CONTROL YOU.

In my little experience, I have never seen a genuinely submissive, respectful, and responsible woman, one who honours her husband, does not talk back or down on him, and understands her role as a wife in her husband’s home, whose husband truly regrets marrying her or seeks divorce.

A man does not spend his time, money, resources, and involve families in marriage simply to enslave, maltreat, dominate, or weaken a woman. To man, marriage is ideally built on love, care, peace, and a sincere desire for each other’s wellbeing.

Rather, I have observed that genuinely respectful, supportive, and responsible women often have strong influence over their husbands, to the extent that outsiders may assume the man has been charmed. In most cases, it is not charm, but peace, wisdom, love, understanding, and mutual respect that strengthen the relationship.

If anyone has a contrary view based on personal experience as a victim or an eyewitness and not mere hearsay, such a person is free to object to my opinion.

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13/04/2026

VDM IS CLEARLY USING MANIPULATION TACTICS ON BLORD CASE.

Whether by coincidence or design, Blord was arraigned on the last sitting day before the Easter recess, Easter Thursday. It is well known that courts typically proceed on a two-week break after Easter.

As such, anyone arraigned on that day would ordinarily remain in custody until the courts resume. This is standard procedure, nothing extraordinary.

However, VDM has chosen to twist this routine judicial process, presenting it as though it were a result of his personal influence. It is not.

This is where his manipulative tendencies become evident, and unfortunately, where some of his followers show a willingness to believe anything they are told.

Now that the vacation judge has resumed sitting today, Blord’s bail application will be heard. Given the nature of the case, he is likely to be granted bail and regain his freedom.

VDM is fully aware of this and understands that he has no power to prevent it.
Yet, instead of allowing due process to take its course, he has gone about claiming that people pleaded with him and that, out of goodwill, he directed his lawyers not to oppose the bail application.

This narrative is misleading and tailored to sway an uncritical audience. The reality remains that neither VDM nor any legal team he engages can stop the grant of bail in this matter. It is not a capital offence, and the outcome will be based on established legal principles, not anyone’s personal influence or grace.