16/06/2026
I watched the Netflix documentary Maternal Instinct over the weekend and it's a fascinating front-row seat to something I talk about on my blog and Substack: Personal risk blindness.
Taylor Parker faked a pregnancy for ten months (yes, TEN…) using a silicone belly and faking doctor’s appointments and ultrasounds.
Security alerts were firing all over the place on this one. Friends and family kept telling Taylor’s boyfriend, Wade, that something didn’t seem right. Some information actually suggested she couldn’t get pregnant in the first place.
Wade kept plugging away, oblivious on the farm with his hogs, as the saxophones got louder in the background.
The failure in this case wasn't missing information. The information and red flags were there. The failure was the cost of Wade accepting it.
By the time the warnings arrived, Wade had already posed for maternity photos, made major purchases justified by Taylor’s fake inheritance, and told everyone he knew a baby was definitely coming.
Believing the truth meant tearing all of that down.
Personal risk blindness is a real risk gap: the alert you received, evaluated, and quietly filed under "oh, it’s probably fine" because the alternative was too expensive or embarrassing to face.
The scariest security vulnerability isn't ignorance. It's the sunk cost running in the background, lowering the bar every time.
👇 Link to my post on personal risk blindness in the comments.