15/09/2026
How often do we say, “It’ll be quicker if I do it”?
Probably because most of the time, it will!
But Week 2 of The Power of the Pause asks us to think about what might be lost when adults routinely step in.
Making a bed is a great example.
An adult can probably make ten nursery beds efficiently and neatly while the children are doing something else.
But what if the children were involved?
Carrying their bedding. Unfolding the sheet. Finding the corners. Stretching it across the mattress. Watching it ping back off again! Trying another way. Asking someone to hold the other side.
Suddenly, a routine task contains physical development, problem-solving, communication, collaboration, perseverance and independence.
And the bed might not look quite as perfect.
Perhaps that’s okay.
This week, Sprout and I are exploring participation before independence and asking practitioners to consider one simple question before automatically stepping in:
Could the child do more here?
Not everything.
Just more.
Pause. Notice. Extend.
Week 2 – Before You Do It for Me is now live.
Read the blog here: https://www.marathon-consultancy.co.uk/the-power-of-the-pause-before-you-do-it-for-me/