Tommy and Desnekka

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Tommy and Desnekka

The Marriage Consultants
Helping Couples Save Their Marriage After Affairs | 98% success rate & 500+ Marriages Saved This is their passion and mission!

Tommy and Desnekka Taylor are the founders of purpose driven coaching, a global online marriage coaching practice, creators of the number one marriage program - Marriage 2.0 and the best relationship mastermind - Relationship Mastery. After they went through everything there was to go through quadruple times over in their marriage they went on to build a global marriage coaching empire helping inspire and empower couples and individuals to save their marriages when everyone else told them to end it. They have been featured on top level podcasts and shows and their training’s impacts 1000’s of people around the world. Tommy and Desnekka have beat all odds...

They went through everything bad a marriage can go through quadruple times over...

- AN INSANE AMOUNT OF AFFAIRS (PHYSICAL AND EMOTINAL)
- ADDICTIONS
- PHYSICAL ABUSE
- MENTAL ABUSE
- VERBAL ABUSE
- TRUST ISSUES
- COMMUNICATION ISSUES
- FINANCIAL ABUSE
- INTIMACY ISSUES
- IDENTITY ISSUES
- ANXIETY THROUGH THE ROOF!
- DEPRESSION
- SUICIDAL ISSUES

They HATED each other to the point they thought about ways to kill each other. Highschool Sweethearts
18 years & 15 married

They tried everything out there... and invested at this point over 250k in to their knowledge. God called them to use their testimony and knowledge to help other couples save their marriage.

11/01/2026

Are you doing the deep work, or just waiting for the world to stop offending you?

Feelings aren't facts. Your perception is not absolute truth.

10/06/2026

Does time heal wounds after an affair?

10/01/2026

Myth #9 suggests discussing an affair prolongs pain. The truth is nuanced. Endless rumination without addressing core issues is harmful. However, a focused, guided conversation about the affair, with clear action steps and deep-rooted changes, can lead to healing and understanding, not continued suffering.

09/28/2026

Many believe trust is built through consistent habits, but true trust blossoms when someone transforms into their authentic self again. Healing and evolving together are key, not constant monitoring or detective work.

09/23/2026

Taking responsibility is noble, but you are not the reason your partner cheated. Their actions stem from their own deep-seated beliefs and issues. You cannot make someone cheat if they don't have the internal belief system that allows for it.

09/22/2026

It's a tough pill to swallow, but everyone is capable of sin and infidelity if their deeper beliefs align with it. However, once those beliefs are repaired and trauma is overcome, the likelihood of cheating becomes virtually zero. It's about foundational change.

09/22/2026

Many believe affairs permanently damage a marriage, making it 'tainted.' While innocence is lost and scars remain, these marks signify healing, not a broken union. Transformation from ashes to glory is possible.

09/21/2026

He will never send you someone else’s spouse to be your “”soul mate”” lol

“I just gotta pray about who to choose” lol

“I think God wants me to leave my marriage for this other person”

“Your will be done” - as long as it’s what I want.lol

“We just effortlessly get along..” lol yeah bc your are living in a false reality you have created in your head to escape your pain. You are not doing life together with real problems.

You will end up divorced again bc number one God does not honor that and 2 you are not a healthy individual so you will have the same plus different problems In that relationship.

“I am in love with them” No your not. That’s Eros love infatuation not agape love unconditional love. The spouse that’s standing despite your stupidity has unconditional love for you.

God does not waver on His principles for you. Sorry you are not a favorite child or something lol.

I did this. I thought I loved someone else and was praying thinking about leaving for someone else.

It was stupid. So I can say your living at the hight of deception.

God will never honor that marriage or relationship.

God may give you outs when the spouse cheats or if they leave and they are a non believer.

However, He never says it’s ok to leave your marriage for someone else.

Sure He gives you a out if there is infidelity but He never wants a marriage to end.

“Well you don’t understand” yeah ok watch our videos and you will see we have been though everything bad a marriage can go though quadruple times over minus death...

We HATED each other to the point we were thinking about ways to kill each other!

So don’t make excuses.

You don’t quit when things get really hard.

I promise you it’s worth fighting for!

So what do you do in this situation?

To see what to do in this situation and how to get your spouse back the comment “FAITH” below to join our fb group to figure out how to fix this!

09/19/2026

Time alone will NEVER fix a marriage after affairs!

09/18/2026

There are so many reasons why someone might cheat, and it's rarely just one thing. People often assume they know the 'why,' but you don't know their story or their programming. Don't attack others when you have no idea what led them to their actions.

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Farragut, TN

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