The Whiteside Group

The Whiteside Group We support women rebuilding life after trauma through customized keynotes, small groups, and one-day events. A veteran owned business.

We provide:
youth and young adult mentoring
individual and group coaching.

06/16/2026

This work chose me long before I chose it, and I've seen too many people walk into their purpose on the other side of pain to ever stop talking about what's possible.

You deserve to hear it, so I'll keep saying it.

If you're ready to bring that conversation into your space, my talk The Art of Self-Love: Building Your Inner Sanctuary is available to book for your next event.

Visit thewhitesidegroup.net or send me a DM.

25 years of working with families, students, and organizations taught me one thing.People are not looking for more inspi...
06/12/2026

25 years of working with families, students, and organizations taught me one thing.

People are not looking for more inspiration. They are looking for someone willing to be honest with them.

That is what I bring into every room.

If your school, organization, or event is looking for a speaker who will give your audience something they will actually carry home, I would love to connect.
Visit thewhitesidegroup.net or send me a DM.


The hardest part isn't always the healing. Sometimes, it's just not knowing where to start.These resources exist. Some a...
06/10/2026

The hardest part isn't always the healing. Sometimes, it's just not knowing where to start.

These resources exist. Some are free and some cost less than you think. All of them are worth knowing about.

And if you want to go deeper, Rebuilding Life After Trauma walks you through it in real language, from someone who understands what it actually costs to rebuild.

Available on Amazon. Go get your copy.

You won't always feel yourself changing. Then suddenly something happens and you realize you are not who you used to be....
06/09/2026

You won't always feel yourself changing. Then suddenly something happens and you realize you are not who you used to be.

You respond instead of react. You stop shrinking and start taking up space like you were always meant to.

That is not luck. That is the result of every hard thing you chose to work through.

My talk, Identity and Power: Rediscovering Who You Are is the talk built around exactly this journey.

If your audience is ready to stop performing who they are and start living it, this is the room to create for them.

Visit thewhitesidegroup.net to book.

We live in a world that wants everything fast. But healing does not work like that.It moves slowly, quietly, and often w...
06/08/2026

We live in a world that wants everything fast. But healing does not work like that.

It moves slowly, quietly, and often without any visible proof that it is even happening.

Some days you will feel like you are going backwards. Some days you will feel nothing at all.

That is not failure. That is the process.

Give yourself the time it actually takes. Not the time you think it should take. Not the timeline someone else healed in. Yours.

My book Rebuilding Life After Trauma was written for this purpose. You can get your copy at Amazon or thewhitesidegroup.net

Two of the most honest things I have ever written are now in the hands of people who needed them most.Life on the Line i...
06/05/2026

Two of the most honest things I have ever written are now in the hands of people who needed them most.

Life on the Line is the story of what it took to show up, serve, and survive seasons that were never meant to be easy.

Rebuilding Life After Trauma is what came after. The parts of healing that aren't neat, the moments where you have to choose yourself over and over before it starts to feel natural.

Both were written for the person sitting in something they don't have words for yet. Sometimes what you need most is proof that someone else has been there and made it through.

Both available on Amazon now. Grab your copies.



Before you send that message, make that decision, or walk away from something that might actually be good for you... PAU...
06/03/2026

Before you send that message, make that decision, or walk away from something that might actually be good for you... PAUSE.

Not every thought is a fact. Some feelings are just old wounds trying to protect you from something that was never actually a threat.



Trauma doesn't always look like falling apart. Sometimes it looks like showing up, and keeping it together while quietly...
06/03/2026

Trauma doesn't always look like falling apart. Sometimes it looks like showing up, and keeping it together while quietly carrying something nobody around you can see.

If you've been there, this was made for you.

Rebuilding from the Ashes: Transforming Trauma into Triumph is a talk designed for the rooms where that woman is sitting. The one who is still functioning but knows something inside her needs to shift.

If your organization or event, is ready to give her that experience, this is the talk to book.

Visit thewhitesidegroup.net to bring this to your audience.

You don't have to wait until everything feels ready or until it stops being scary. The fullest version of you starts wit...
06/01/2026

You don't have to wait until everything feels ready or until it stops being scary. The fullest version of you starts with a decision you make today.

You were made for more. Move like it.

And if you want to pour that same belief into a little girl who needs to hear it, there is a way to do that.

The I Am More Than My Hair initiative sponsors girls to experience a workshop designed to show them who they are before the world tries to tell them otherwise.

For $75 you can sponsor a girl and change the way she sees herself. DM me or visit thewhitesidegroup.net for details.

One of the most underrated things you can do for your mental health is find your people.Not just people who know your na...
05/29/2026

One of the most underrated things you can do for your mental health is find your people.

Not just people who know your name but people who notice when you go quiet, people who create enough safety that you stop performing okay and finally just breathe.

That is not a coincidence. That is medicine.

Community is not a luxury. For women especially, it is a lifeline.

If you are looking for a speaker who knows how to create that kind of safety in a room and move your audience from the inside out, let's connect.

DM me or book through thewhitesidegroup.net

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