Gay Options Dating Service

Gay Options Dating Service Gay Options Dating Service is the nation’s oldest le***an and gay matchmaker focusing on long-term

09/02/2026

When the Love is Gone, Don't Cheat. Just Leave.
You NEVER forget that pain of finding out your lover cheated.
Not every relationship is meant to last forever.
Sometimes people grow apart.
Sometimes feelings change.
Sometimes you simply reach the end of the road together.
And leaving may hurt. But betrayal hurts differently.
You can end a relationship without humiliating someone.
You can walk away without stripping your partner, or yourself, of dignity.
If there is a love worth saving, fight for it. Talk. Get help. Do the work.
But if you know in your heart that it's truly over, have the courage to say so before you begin an affair. There's a HUGE difference between "I'm sorry we're over", and "I'm sorry I betrayed you." One creates heartbreak. The other creates one of life's worst betrayals.
After 40+ years of matchmaking, I believe one of the greatest gifts you can give someone is an honest ending. Leave them with their dignity. And leave with yours.
Comment: DIGNITY if you believe people deserve an honest ending instead of a dishonest relationship.





08/22/2026

The Silent Treatment Isn't a Cooling Off Period. It's Control.
Silence isn't peace.
It's punishment. 🥺
Healthy love communicates. Immature love shuts down.
If being ignored feels normal, that's not calm. That's conditioning.
Stonewalling— the silent, withdrawn shutdown, is one of the strongest predictors of divorce; accurate over 93% of the time.
It's corrosive because it happens quietly over time😔
40+ years of matchmaking has taught me this: The right person doesn't disappear when it gets hard. They stay in the room.
Comment: START if you're ready fur someone mature enough to talk it out.





MatureLove

08/16/2026

Apparently the "U-Haul" has a special compartment for the cats
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The le***an connection actually runs deeper than the stereo type. Cats have historically been associated with women who lived outside the conventional expectations of femininity: witches, spinsters and eventually LE****NS. Sociologists even write about le***ans who almost feel obligated to like cats!

Le****ns, I need answers. How many cats are currently running your household?😆😂🤣👇

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LGBTQLove

08/09/2026

Forgiveness Without Change=
PERMISSION

Forgiveness is a beautiful quality. But forgiveness does not mean repeatedly accepting the same bad behavior from someone who knows it hurts you.
Forgiveness was never meant to be a doormat. It should be a bridge you build AFTER someone shows they deserve to cross it.
Above infidelity and above money fights— contempt and disrespect are the #1 predictor of divorce. Not because people can't forgive, but because they forgive too easily and too often.
Have a soft heart, but strong boundaries. Forgive freely, but NEVER normalize disrespect.
40+ years of matchmaking taught me this: The people who find lasting love aren't the ones who forgive the most. They're the ones who know what's worth forgiving— and what isn't.

Naiomi Kooritzky
Founder, Options Matchmaking
Since 1994

If someone needs to hear this today, send it to them. Forgiveness doesn't mean reopening the door before they've earned the key.





HealthyLove

08/01/2026

Some animals mate for life, so why can't humans?🤔
Everyone says commitment is hard because humans "aren't built for one person.
40+ years of matching couples taught me the truth. It's NOT biology.
Its character. ✨🙏🏻✨





07/28/2026

5 Ways to Get Over Someone Sooner

The fastest way forward is to stop checking behind you. You don't need closure from them. You need distance from them.

Comment: "RELEASE" if you're finally ready to stop looking back & follow for more love lessons from a professional matchmaker of over 40 years.





07/20/2026

Never Settle for Someone Who Accepts a Fraction of the Love You're Capable of Giving
Our ability to love isn't "too much." It's simply too much for the wrong person.
The right person will meet you with the same generosity, consistency, and depth.
As a professional matchmaker for over 40 years, I've learned that the happiest relationships are built when both people match each other's effort & commitment.
Comment: "MATCH" if you're ready to find someone who loves as deeply as you do. ✨💖✨And also follow for more love lessons that lead to lasting love.

07/13/2026

You Didn't Fade in Their Memory—
You Got Clearer

Some people don't recognize your value until they have to live without you.
They had their shot. They know exactly what they let go of.
You were never "too much."
Sometimes the best closure is realizing they finally understand what they lost.

Comment: "FORWARD" if you're ready for a love that never has to lose you to appreciate you.

07/05/2026

Find Someone Who Looks at You Like They Still Can't Believe Their Lucky Stars. ✨
You deserve someone who never takes your heart for granted. 💖
Someone who never forgets what a privilege it is to love you. ✨💝✨





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