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We are a company who specialise in creating the space for you to pause and to think about what you do, why you do it, how you do it and how you could do it differently? We work successfully in the corporate, public and voluntary sector, providing training, development and coaching opportunities for teams, managers, leaders and organisations. We also have experience and expertise in the evaluation

of processes and projects. Our Coaches and consultants are experienced facilitators and our work is regarded as being underpinned by a strong value base, and has as its heart participation, involvement, honesty and openness. We provide a range of development opportunities including bespoke programmes and nationally recognized leadership and management qualifications.

We notice we're okay when the list is okay. The kids. The budget. The partner. The work.But the list keeps moving – and ...
07/14/2026

We notice we're okay when the list is okay. The kids. The budget. The partner. The work.

But the list keeps moving – and our sense of home moves with it.

What if there were another way to feel alright? One that comes from inside the body, not from anything outside it.

A place to come back to. A place that doesn't move when the list does.

Rob Husband's new essay on becoming your own home: https://rhusband.substack.com/p/outsourcing-my-ok-ness

When Rob Husband was 22, a stranger in a smoky Bristol pub told him: "There's something in you that knows that no matter...
07/09/2026

When Rob Husband was 22, a stranger in a smoky Bristol pub told him: "There's something in you that knows that no matter what happens, you will be alright."

Decades later, he's still turning that sentence over. Because the truth is more tender: sometimes he believes it himself β€” and sometimes he outsources his OK-ness to everything outside him. The healthy budget. The happy kids. The well partner. The appreciated song.

But those things shift constantly, beyond our control. They're fickle. And when our sense of being okay rests on them, we're left in a quiet, frantic scramble for something to hold onto.

In a recent Emergence Room episode, Eveline van den Heuvel described feeling as though she had become her own home. That image stayed with Rob β€” and became this new piece of writing.

So here's the invitation: how would you live if you needed less outside-ness to build your OK-ness? If your own body had become the home where you feel safe?

πŸ“– Read Rob's full article here: https://rhusband.substack.com/p/outsourcing-my-ok-ness

07/07/2026

"Other people can have this… but not me."
Sound familiar?

We all carry limiting beliefs β€” often so quietly we don't even notice them. Beliefs that whisper that wealth, creativity, freedom, love… are for other people. Not us.
And here's the trap: we start behaving as if it's true. So the world hands us back exactly the "evidence" we expected. πŸ”

But a belief is not a fact. And the ceiling you didn't choose is one you can expand beyond.

In this episode, Eveline unpacks the hidden beliefs shaping what we think is possible β€” and how we begin to grow past them.

🎧 Full episode out now: https://rhusband.substack.com/p/what-stays-when-structures-fall-evelines?r=2ho399

What's the "but not me" belief you're ready to outgrow? Drop it below πŸ‘‡

A shifting list. A home that moves.Most of us borrow our okay-ness from somewhere outside the body – the kids being happ...
06/05/2026

A shifting list. A home that moves.

Most of us borrow our okay-ness from somewhere outside the body – the kids being happy, the partner being well, the work being praised, the budget being kind. The list never stops moving. We learn early that this is just how it works.

Rob Husband's new piece is for anyone who's started to wonder what it would take to stop outsourcing the feeling – and how you'd live if your body had become the home you keep looking for.

Full piece on our Substack: πŸ”—https://open.substack.com/pub/rhusband/p/outsourcing-my-ok-ness?r=2ho399&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

"You have always intrigued me. There's something in you that knows no matter what happens, you will be alright."A man Ro...
06/02/2026

"You have always intrigued me. There's something in you that knows no matter what happens, you will be alright."

A man Rob Husband had never spoken to said this to him in a loud Bristol pub when he was 22. He's been turning the sentence over ever since.

Most of us are doing the opposite. We outsource our sense of being okay to a long, shifting list – the kids being happy, the budget looking healthy, the work being praised, the partner being well. We notice we're okay when the list is. And then the list moves.

Rob's new piece asks the slow, awkward question underneath that: what would it take to make yourself the home you keep looking for?

Read the full essay on our substack: πŸ”—https://open.substack.com/pub/rhusband/p/outsourcing-my-ok-ness?r=2ho399&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

A different game. Different rules. A different question.Most of us learned to play before we knew we were playing. We an...
05/16/2026

A different game. Different rules. A different question.

Most of us learned to play before we knew we were playing. We answered "how are you?" with the answer the room expected. We performed wellness. We accepted growth as the only direction.

Rob Husband's new essay is for anyone who's started to ask which game we're actually playing – and what the rules might look like if we wrote them ourselves.

Full piece on our Substack: πŸ”—https://rhusband.substack.com/p/playing-on-the-wrong-field?r=2ho399

There's a look people give you when you give an honest answer they weren't ready for.Rob Husband has spent years collect...
05/14/2026

There's a look people give you when you give an honest answer they weren't ready for.

Rob Husband has spent years collecting that look – after a simple question like "how are you doing" results in him sharing how he's terrified by how little we learn from our own catastrophic failures.

For a long time he thought he was the one who'd missed the briefing – the one where everyone else memorised the rules of the field we're all supposedly playing on.

Now he thinks the briefing was the problem.

Read the full article on our substack for his answer – and the rules he'd play by instead: πŸ”—https://rhusband.substack.com/p/playing-on-the-wrong-field?r=2ho399

This weekend I went camping in Northumbria with my youngest daughter and we visited Lindisfarne. I have often heard this...
04/08/2026

This weekend I went camping in Northumbria with my youngest daughter and we visited Lindisfarne. I have often heard this described as a thin place and it certainly felt like that, some liminal space that sits between land, sea and sky, a place. The idea of Thin Places has always intrigued me, they are often described as somewhere where the divide between us and a 'something other' feels a little less definite than normal. For me, these places appear in two very different ways: one is in nature, the other when I am reading and reflecting on what it means to connect with source, the energy we all come from. A few years ago I was sitting in a pub waiting for a couple of friends to arrive. I was reading a chapter from The Nature of Consciousness by Rupert Spira. He was exploring the idea that we are all connected to everything, that separation is an illusion. As I sat reading, I had the distinct experience of any divide between me and everyone else in the pub disappearing; we were all different expressions of the same thing. I have experienced this a few times, and each time I feel deep peace. I wonder where your Thin Places are?

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