31/10/2026
everyone says “happy birthday”, blows out the candles, opens the presents…
…yet in my 31 years around the sun, rarely have I ever paused to see how f-ing lucky I am to be alive.
To have incarnated on this planet at this exact time.
To have been born into the exact family and circumstances I was born into (the good, the ugly, all of it).
To honour the cycle of birth, death, and rebirth on and on and on - in true Scorpio fashion. 💁🏼♀️
So, to celebrate myself (bc it’s about damn time we did more of that on an average Tuesday, not *just* our birthdays…) here are some highlights from this weekend:
1- wrote my very first Substack post 🙈 yup, my “perfect” day that has absolutely NOTHING scheduled on the agenda includes 2 hours of creative writing. I loved every second.
2- caviar for breakfast because I like a bougie life
3- relishing in the fact that my new chilly bin matches my new sandals (Gillian | Style Coach - ingenue much?)
4- morning in the sun with my bestie, cacao, and one of the greatest books I’ve ever read by Regena Thomashauer
5- birthday eve dinner (FINALLY found a dairy-free mozzarella 🤤 man did I miss a good carprese salad). AKL locals you can find it at Little Bird Kitchen
6- apéro, but make it sober (thank you to Elta Ego™ 🍹 Alcohol-Free Adaptogenic Cocktails )
7- and the typical roadtrip selfie of what your face probably looks like right now
Thank you for being part of my life & community.
Thank you for your love & kind wishes.
(I’ll respond to the DMs soon, I promise - I just don’t like being glued to my phone on my bday and my partner’s is Nov 1st* 👀)
Thank you for entertaining my dorky-ness and constant re-inventions.
Here’s to many more trips around the sun of exactly that & then some.
K - I think my pizza is almost ready for pickup. Yes I’m bougie but I also love a good pepperoni 🍕
(Update: pepperoni was ready before I hit “post”. It was divine. Happy face captured for ya in the last pic.)
Happy Halloween - enjoy your spooky adventures!
Vik
P.S. the Substack isn’t live & published yet, but I’ll let ya know when it is x
*P.P.S. yes, our birthdays are one second apart. Never a dull moment with 2 Scorpio’s under one roof 😂