06/15/2026
No one ever drifts lazily out of a holding pattern. Ask me how I know this.
I've been in holding patterns before. Even if that pattern began as a good thing, eventually, if you want to move on, that holding pattern absolutely has to be interrupted. Either you have to interrupt it or someone else has to interrupt it for you.
Picture an airplane going up and down the same runway, but never taking off, or circling the airport, but never coming in for a landing.
If you know deep down that you're stuck, there might be something holding you back from interrupting that holding pattern.
But argh, most of us (me, it's me) tend to hang on to what's familiar and comfortable, even if it's not what's best for us. Taking action is hard. Moving toward the unknown is scary because what we know feels safer.
If you're feeling stuck, ask yourself and someone you trust if it might be time to take off or land the plane.
Almost every success story I've ever heard includes a holding pattern that was interrupted right before the breakthrough.
But you know what? I don't hear as many stories about the transition time between the holding pattern and the breakthrough. Usually, the breakthrough isn't immediate. There's going to be a time of waiting, when you might feel hidden and tired because you're building new muscles so you can step into the new and unfamiliar next thing.
Tell me about your breakthrough, your success, but especially share any wisdom you might have about that transition time in the middle.