06/17/2026
There was not one event that broke us. It was a combination of things that built up over time until we both had attorneys and it was over.
Shannon and I are faith first. And what we did when we got married was not a contract. It was a covenant with God. That is the only reason we stopped and asked ourselves the harder question. Not what did she do. Not what did he do. What did I do to get here and what did I stop doing.
There was plenty of blame to go around on both sides. But that question changed everything.
My mom was married four times. I had four dads by the time I was 16. I had no roadmap for what a healthy marriage looked like. I knew how to leave one. I did not know how to stay in one.
I am most proud of the marriage Shannon and I have built. Not the business. Not the brokerage. This.