25/09/2026
"I've run out of asking my friends to come to the show over and over again. I've run out of my family. They said we've seen that."
A musician client of mine said that to me on a call once and I still think about it.
Because that's the ceiling nearly every gigging artist hits, and it's got nothing to do with talent or how good the show is. (Unless it does... and hopefully you know if that's the case)
But if you're in the bucket of knowing your show is great, you might have just run out of people who already know you.
The way past it is telling new people about your show, and extending the invitation to attend.
That feels risky. Yup, it totally does.
So does spending your own money to get in front of them.
But you're already taking the bigger risk every day, just by being a musician.
There are no guarantees when you choose music as your career path.
You're not doing anything fancy by promoting your shows.
You're literally just telling more people about them in a way that will have the highest chance of them actually buying a ticket and attending.
That's it.
This is one of those situations, like anything in life, where we either win or we learn.
The people who choose to do both of those things at the same time generally move forward the fastest.
At least that's what I see.